We've all heard the myth that becoming a high value woman is all about attracting a man... but that’s simply not true!

Being a high value woman is about living life on your own terms, cultivating abundance, and creating the life you truly desire. It’s about building confidence, setting boundaries, and prioritizing your own well-being.

The real bonus of being a high value woman is that you naturally become irresistible to both men and women.

If you want to embody the traits of a high value woman and attract the life you’ve always dreamed of, here are 10 powerful habits to adopt. These habits will help you elevate your mindset, attract success, and become the high value woman you were meant to be.

Embrace Your Authenticity

Embrace your uniqueness and don't apologize for it.

Be true to yourself and live according to your values, beliefs, and desires. When you're true to yourself it's easy to be you without the exhaustion of trying to be someone else.

This authenticity will make you more confident and attract the right people and opportunities into your life.

Try out new hobbies and find experiences in new things that open your world to help find  the authentic you.

Cultivate Self-Love

Self-love is the foundation of being a high value woman. It starts with self-awareness, self-acceptance, and taking care of your mental, physical, and emotional well-being.

When you love yourself, you become less dependent on external validation, and more confident in your own skin.

That does mean caring about your appearance but not for the approval of others  but for your own.

So take that pilates class, follow a guided meditation, get a massage and read a good book that allows you to fantasize your deepest desires! 

Set Clear Boundaries & Keep Your Standard High

Set clear boundaries and say "no" to what doesn't align with your values and goals is a sign of self-respect, and it helps you prioritize what truly matters.

Keeping your standards high will allow you to save yourself the heartache from disappointment of people not treating you at the level you don’t deserve.

When your standards are high and boundaries are set you protect your time, energy, and well-being. 

Develop a Growth Mindset

A high value woman never stops growing. Adopt a growth mindset and embrace challenges and failures as opportunities for growth and learning.

This mindset will help you overcome obstacles, grow as a person, and achieve your goals.

The best way to do this is to read and watch videos of self development.

You have to break your old way of thinking down because it will create unnecessary road blocks along the way.

Surround Yourself with Positive Influences

Have you ever heard the saying “ you are the 5 people you hang around the most” I hate to break it to you but, it's true.

So surround yourself with people who support, inspire, and challenge you. Seek out relationships with people who share your values and vision, and who bring out the best in you.

Here’s a tip: if you're still hanging around the same places you normally go to and are not meeting the right people it's time to find new places to go.

Practice Gratitude

Practice gratitude daily by focusing on the good things in your life. Express appreciation for what you have, and you'll attract even more abundance and positivity into your life.

This is so important because it's easy to focus on all the things going wrong. Take at least 5 minutes in the morning and at the end of each day and really think about all the good things you have in life that you're grateful for.

When you focus on all the good you only can give off and receive more good things. You will radiate positive energy!

Invest in Personal Development

Personal development is essential for becoming a high value woman. To grow into your best self, make time to read books, watch YouTube videos, attend workshops, and participate in conferences that expand your knowledge.

Working with a coach can also be incredibly beneficial for enhancing your skills and mindset. By investing in your personal development, you’re taking the necessary steps to evolve into a high value woman, unlocking your full potential and creating the life you desire.

Consistent self-investment is a key factor in becoming the high value woman you aspire to be.

Here are some must reads to get you started: Alchemist, 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, Think and Grow Rich, The Compound Effect, and The Subtle Art of Not Giving F#ck.

Pursue Your Desires

Pursue your desires and do what brings you joy! If it’s the freedom to travel whenever you want, look into your career and see what you can work towards to make it a reality.

When you're passionate about what you do you'll attract success and fulfillment into your life. Create a vision board!

Put pictures and words to describe your desires of what you want to be, do, and look like then place it somewhere you can see it everyday and ask yourself daily “What can I do today to get me closer to my desires?”

Understand Your Feelings and be in Control of them

You are aware of your feelings, how you feel and how you react to others. You choose to be proactive rather than reactive.

You never allow others to control your emotions and have you step out of the person you choose to be. You are able to explain your feelings without getting too emotional because you speak from a place of understanding.

Trust the Journey and be CONFIDENT!

Understand that everything happens for a reason, and life is a journey filled with both ups and downs. To become a high value woman, you must be confident in who you are and not let others bring you down.

Trust that you are exactly where you're meant to be, and everything will fall into place. While this may sound easy, it’s one of the hardest things to truly believe and live by.

To attract your dream life and become a high value woman, you need to be willing to embrace change, take risks, and sometimes even be considered "delusional" by others. But remember, you're only “delusional” until your vision becomes a reality.

Becoming a high value woman means embracing your authenticity, practicing self-love, cultivating a growth mindset, and investing in personal development.

It also means surrounding yourself with positive influences, practicing gratitude, setting clear boundaries, and pursuing your passions with confidence. A high value woman is someone who is in control of her emotions and trusts the journey, knowing that all of these steps will help her attract the life she desires.

By embracing these habits, you will not only transform into a high value woman but also attract the dream life you’ve always wanted.

✍️ Written by Elizabeth Santa Cruz